Saturday, December 15, 2007
Birth Month Meme
The rules for this meme are:
- Pick your birth month.
- Bold the 5-10 that best apply to you.
- Copy to your own journal, with all twelve months. (Here's where you can get the list of the qualities for each birth month).
- Tag 3 people from your friends list (people you know personally) and 3 blogger/online friends.
My birth month is FEBRUARY,and my qualities (kuno hehehe...) are:
Abstract thoughts (I like listening to good ideas and thoughts). Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever (naks!). Changing personality (sus, chameleon pala ako). Attractive. Sexy. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble (ehem, ehem, wen met a piman no mamingsan). Honest and loyal (nagkatugma kami ni Ganda nito). Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn (an inherited trait from my grandma and my mother hehehe). Ambitious. Realizes dreams and hopes. Sharp (I'd like to think so hehehe). Loves entertainment and leisure (who doesn't?). Romantic on the inside not outside (daw!). Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.
I tag my brother Andreas, Ading Sarah who needs to update her posts hehehehe..., and Jesse. Hmmm... My online friends have already been tagged so I guess I don't have to include them =D
I like Ganda's tweak to the meme, so I will put the birthmonth qualities of Ganda and these three friends and bold the qualities that I like best about them. Funny, Ganda, Sarah and Jesse have the same birthmonth. Hmmm... =)
GANDA
MARCH: Attractive personality. Sexy (noon daw pero sige lang, ituloy ang walking hihihihi). Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others (I just asked her a favor and she couldn't say no hehehe). Easily angered. Trustworthy (which is probably why she's one of my close friends). Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners (hmmm.. daw? ehehehe). Loves home decors (I was there when she decorated her Christmas tree and her house). Musically talented (katulad ko, hihihi). Loves special things. Moody.
ANDREAS
JULY: Fun to be with (hey, that's why we clicked). Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself (I would say, arrogant in some respects hehehehe). Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings (definitely!). Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally (he makes me think too much also). Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving (the best part about having a big brother). Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy (he has concern for other people). Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends (even when I'm shopping, he is indeed patient). Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting problems (ahahahaha... Right!). Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
SARAH
MARCH: Attractive personality. Sexy (walang panama si Ganda dito ehehehe). Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others (I also asked a favor from her and she couldn't say no hehehe). Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners (nyahahaha, hasty ba?). Loves home decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody.
JESSE
MARCH: Attractive personality. Sexy (isa pa to). Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others (kaya bagay nito na Information Officer e hehe). Easily angered. Trustworthy (the holder of my secrets hihihi). Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful. Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented (birit baby to). Loves special things (yap, maarte to pagdating sa gamit). Moody.
Friday, October 12, 2007
Mooncake, Anyone?
According to this site, which also explains the origins/legends of the Moon Festival, "While baked goods are a common feature at most Chinese celebrations, mooncakes are inextricably linked with the Moon festival. One type of traditional mooncake is filled with lotus seed paste. Roughly the size of a human palm, these mooncakes are quite filling, meant to be cut diagonally in quarters and passed around. A word of caution: the salty yolk in the middle, representing the full moon, is an acquired taste.
More elaborate versions of mooncakes contain four egg yolks (representing the four phases of the moon). Besides lotus seed paste, other traditional fillings include red bean paste and black bean paste. Unfortunately for dieters, mooncakes are rather high in calories.While in the past mooncakes took up to four weeks to make, automation has speeded up the process considerably. Today, mooncakes may be filled with everything from dates, nuts, and fruit to Chinese sausages.
More exotic creations include green tea mooncakes, and ping pei or snowskin mooncakes, a Southeast Asian variation made with cooked glutinous rice flour. Haagen-Daz has even gotten into the act by introducing a line of ice cream mooncakes in Asian markets."
With that introduction, here are some different kinds, but I'm sure there are a lot more interesting ones.
The Chinese characters probably tell you what the flavor is.
The Mini Mooncake
This one is pandan flavor, I guess.
The Proudly Indonesian 'Kue Bulan' (mooncake)
This one has chocolate filling.
The Oink Mooncake?
This is the most unusual mooncake I have seen so far.
So now you know what a mooncake is! =) You should check out the site above for the origins/legends of the Moon Festival. I heard the historical version from a member of my family group, but the romantic version adds another dimension to it.
Friday, October 05, 2007
My Quote for the Day
Harold J. Sala
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Brother Moon
After more than an hour of restlessness in bed, I opened my eyes to see what the time was, and to my surprise, it was very bright outside, even to the point of illumining my room which was blocked by huge curtains. I wondered why, so I stood up and looked outside, and behold, I saw Brother Moon shining so radiantly. After a moment of entrancement, I quickly got my camera and took snapshots of it. This is the best photo I got =)
After that, I was able to go to sleep hehehehe... I must have eaten too much mooncake that day! Happy Mooncake Festival for those who are celebrating it.
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Images of Batam, Indonesia
Obvious ba, prawn lang ang gusto ko?
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Monday, September 10, 2007
Crossroads
Until now, when I came upon this crossroad. The new road is a mystery; it seems to fit me judging from the size and makings of it, but I have no inkling of where it would lead me. Time and again I have come upon this road but have not seen the compelling need to switch roads. I know that like the old road I would need to adjust to it before I can really get the hang of traveling on it; that is, if I do decide to get off the old road though.
(This is an old post from my Friendster blog. I was reminded of it because Ading Jean mentioned it in her comment for 'Bitter or Better'. I'm reposting it here to acknowledge that I did decide to get off the old road, but I'm in no hurry to get on the new road either. I'm resting from all that traveling hehehe...)
Saturday, August 25, 2007
Eight Random Facts About Me
These are the rules for this tagging thing, which I'm supposed to post as well:
- We have to post these rules before we give you the facts.
- Players start with eight random facts/habits about themselves.
- People who are tagged need to write on their own blog about their eight things and post these rules.
- At the end of your blog, you need to choose eight people to get tagged and list their names.
- Don’t forget to leave them a comment on their blog telling them they’re tagged, and you read their blog.
Since I was up to the challenge, I then thought of eight things about me, myself and I that I could share without being too uncomfortable. These are what I came up with:
1. I started reading early and I was a certified bookworm in elementary, so much so that my mother would rip the books (usually pocketbooks) I was reading or hide them every time she catches me, because I forget to do the household chores or the things she asked me to do.
2. By profession, I am a journalist but I got involved in the work of Bible Translation. My friend, Jesse, who is also a journalist by profession but is now working in Dubai, says she is now a journalist on LOA. If she is on LOA, I guess I am retired =)
3. I am a chocoholic. I love chocolates! I just ate a little Snickers bar after dinner hehehe... I also have a sweet tooth. My friend, Ferri Cardia, would also tell you that I'm an ice cream addict. I wonder, can you have a sweet tooth and not be chocoholic?
4. I always say I am the eldest of four siblings, but actually, I had an eldest brother who died when we were young (God bless his soul). I am the next in rank, so I got the title of eldest by default.
5. When I laugh, tears would fall from my eyes. I think it may be hereditary because my mom and my aunts are also like that.
6. I like jamming or videoke sessions; they are one of my stress-busters. I miss my dorm days where my roomies and I can just gather in our room and sing the day away. Incidentally, some older classmates in the graduate school I attended gave me the title 'karaoke queen' because they couldn't believe that I know most of the old songs (courtesy of my father hehehe...).
7. I only wore earrings after I graduated from college; I haven't bothered before that. Ina, my grandmother from my mother's side, was the one who pierced my ears hehehe...
8. I get scared easily so I don't like horror movies; they stay with me for a long time. If I do watch, I'd have to have a companion. But I like cartoons =)
There, folks, that's me! Hehehe... Hmmm... the next thing I'm supposed to do is to tag eight others. Igorot Blogger has not tagged Ferri Cardia so Sis, you are tagged; Manong Bob; Ading Sarah; Jesse (she can do it on her Friendster blog since Multiply is blocked in Dubai); Okay and his wife, Luz (that is, if they still have time to do this since Luz just gave birth to their first child, Fanuz); my twin friends, Robyn and Joanne.Now, friendz, you have to do this or else I will put pressure on you, so much so that it would create another typhoon Milenyo. So for love of country (sparing the Philippines from another disaster), DOH it. (I think this is better than the purgatory stuff of Igorot Blogger hehehe... Jokis!) But the most important thing is, enjoy!
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Bitter or Better?
(Note: I just had to unload some serious stuff as a sort of catharsis or else my head would explode. Hehehe...)
Tuesday, August 07, 2007
Toilet Etiquette
Thursday, August 02, 2007
Pedicure with a Twist
I could have tolerated seeing my nails' color evolve through time – from blatant red to dirty white, but the ingrown in my left toenail kept bugging me. It began to hurt because I now walk regularly and it gets pressed. As soon as I take off my shoes and socks, I could feel the nails cutting through the flesh.
I guess I should blame it all on the doctor who removed my whole left toenail years ago after I had a nail infection, and closed the corners where the sides of the nail ought to be. He told me that the toenail will not grow back, but he was grossly wrong! It did grow back and it started to cut through the flesh until the toe got infected again. When I got tired of drinking antibiotics, I went to have the toenail cut by a pedicurist, who when hearing about my minor operation promptly declared that the doctor was tabbed (stupid) for telling me that the nail won't grow back, because they do grow back eventually even when the whole nail is removed. Since that time, I had to have my pedicure regularly or else the same cycle of infection would happen.
Thursday, July 19, 2007
Musings of a Stranger in a Foreign Land
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
The Folded Napkin: A Trucker's Story
(If this doesn't light your fire, your wood is wet!!!)
I tried not to be biased, but I had my doubts about hiring Stevie. His placement counselor assured me that he would be a good, reliable busboy. But I had never had a mentally handicapped employee and wasn't sure I wanted one.
I wasn't sure how my customers would react to Stevie. He was short, a little dumpy with the smooth facial features and thick-tongued speech of Downs Syndrome. I wasn't worried about most of my trucker customers because truckers don't generally care who buses tables as long as the meatloaf platter is good and the pies are homemade. The four-wheeler drivers were the ones who concerned me; the mouthy college kids traveling to school; the yuppie snobs who secretly polish their silverware with their napkins for fear of catching some dreaded "truck-stop germ"; the pairs of white-shirted business men on expense accounts who think every truck stop waitress wants to be with. I knew those people would be uncomfortable around Stevie so I closely watched him for the first few weeks.
I shouldn't have worried. After the first week, Stevie had my staff wrapped around his stubby little finger, and within a month my truck regulars had adopted him as their official truck-stop mascot.
After that, I really didn't care what the rest of the customers thought of him. He was like a 21-year-old in blue jeans and Nikes, eager to laugh and eager to please, but fierce in his attention to his duties. Every salt and pepper shaker was exactly in its place, not a bread crumb or coffee spill was visible when Stevie got done with the table. Our only problem was persuading him to wait to clean a table until after the customers were finished. He would hover in the background, shifting his weight from one foot to the other, scanning the dining room until a table was empty. Then he would scurry to the empty table and carefully bus dishes and glasses onto his cart and meticulously wipe the table up with a practiced flourish of his rag. If he thought a customer was watching, his brow would pucker with added concentration. He took pride in doing his job exactly right, and you had to love how hard he tried to please each and every person he met.
Over time, we learned that he lived with his mother, a widow who was disabled after repeated surgeries for cancer. They lived on their Social Security benefits in public housing two miles from the truck stop. Their social worker, who stopped to check on him every so often, admitted they had fallen between the cracks. Money was tight, and what I paid him was probably the difference between them being able to live together and Stevie being sent to a group home.
That's why the restaurant was a gloomy place that morning last August, the first in three years that Stevie missed work. He was at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester getting a new valve or something put in his heart. His social worker said that people with Downs Syndrome often have heart problems at an early age so this wasn't unexpected, and there was a good chance he would come through the surgery in good shape and be back at work in a few months.
A ripple of excitement ran through the staff later that morning when word came that he was out of surgery, in recovery, and doing fine. Frannie, the head waitress, let out a war hoop and did a little dance in the aisle when she heard the good news. Belle Ringer, one of our regular trucker customers, stared at the sight of this 50-year-old grandmother of four doing a victory shimmy beside his table.
Frannie blushed, smoothed her apron and shot Belle Ringer a withering look. He grinned. "OK, Frannie, what was that all about?" he asked. "We just got word that Stevie is out of surgery and going to be okay." "I was wondering where he was. I had a new joke to tell him. What was the surgery about?"
Frannie quickly told Belle Ringer and the other two drivers sitting at his booth about Stevie's surgery, then sighed: "Yeah, I'm glad he is going to be OK," she said. "But I don't know how he and his Mom are going to handle all the bills. From what I hear, they're barely getting by as it is."
Belle Ringer nodded thoughtfully, and Frannie hurried off to wait on the rest of her tables. Since I hadn't had time to round up a busboy to replace Stevie and really didn't want to replace him, the girls were busing their own tables that day until we decided what to do.
After the morning rush, Frannie walked into my office. She had a couple of paper napkins in her hand and a funny look on her face. "What's up?" I asked. "I didn't get that table where Belle Ringer and his friends were sitting cleared off after they left, and Pony Pete and Tony Tipper were sitting there when I got back to clean it off," she said. "This was folded and tucked under a coffee cup."
She handed the napkin to me, and three $20 bills fell onto my desk when I opened it. On the outside, in big, bold letters, was printed "Something For Stevie". "Pony Pete asked me what that was all about," she said, "so I told him about Stevie and his Mom and everything, and Pete looked at Tony and Tony looked at Pete, and they ended up giving me this." She handed me another paper napkin that had "Something For Stevie" scrawled on its outside. Two $50 bills were tucked within its folds. Frannie looked at me with wet, shiny eyes, shook her head, and said simply: "Truckers."
That was three months ago. Today is Thanksgiving, the first day Stevie is supposed to be back to work. His placement worker said he's been counting the days until the doctor said he could work, and it didn't matter at all that it was a holiday. He called 10 times in the past week, making sure we knew he was coming, fearful that we had forgotten him or that his job was in jeopardy. I arranged to have his mother bring him to work. I then met them in the parking lot and invited them both to celebrate his day back.
Stevie was thinner and paler, but couldn't stop grinning as he pushed through the doors and headed for the back room where his apron and busing cart were waiting. "Hold up there, Stevie, not so fast," I said. I took him and his mother by their arms. "Work can wait for a minute. To celebrate you coming back, breakfast for you and your mother is on me!"
I led them toward a large corner booth at the rear of the room. I could feel and hear the rest of the staff following behind as we marched through the dining room. Glancing over my shoulder, I saw booth after booth of grinning truckers empty and join the procession. We stopped in front of the big table. Its surface was covered with coffee cups, saucers and dinner plates, all sitting slightly crooked on dozens of folded paper napkins.
"First thing you have to do, Stevie, is clean up this mess," I said. I tried to sound stern. Stevie looked at me, and then at his mother, then pulled out one of the napkins. It had "Something for Stevie" printed on the outside. As he picked it up, two $10 bills fell onto the table. Stevie stared at the money, then at all the napkins peeking from beneath the tableware, each with his name printed or scrawled on it. I turned to his mother. There's more than $10,000 in cash and checks on that table, all from truckers and trucking companies that heard about your problems. "Happy Thanksgiving!"
Well, it got real noisy about that time, with everybody hollering and shouting, and there were a few tears, as well. But you know what's funny? While everybody else was busy shaking hands and hugging each other, Stevie, with a big, big smile on his face, was busy clearing all the cups and dishes from the table.
Best worker I ever hired.
Plant a seed and watch it grow.
If you shed a tear, hug yourself, because you are a compassionate person.
Thursday, March 08, 2007
Be Grateful by Peter Gerhard
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trails to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to bring you joy.
Always put yourself in another's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best ofeverything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't get on well in life until you let go of past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
Monday, January 22, 2007
Celebration Time!
Whew! We have just finished celebrating the end of Phase 4: Field Methods and Computer Data Management, but I'm still reeling from the shock of it. Imagine, I was able to finish my paper of 51 pages. Isn't that grand? I slept at past 3am this morning, and my housemates slept later than me. We all need sleep but most of us are still in the computer room. I guess it is hard to break old habits. =)
Yesterday, I was in the computer room the whole day staring at my laptop. I was not feeling tired yet, but when we went home at 6pm, I told myself I'd just rest for a bit then wake up to finish my paper. Voila! I woke up to find out its past 8pm already. I had to force myself to wake up by standing, because my body was still in the sleep, sleep mode.
That's when I realized how tired I was. My body was reacting to the weeks of hell I put it through. It's good we had a Christmas break or else the Applied Linguistics class would all have a breakdown at one point or the other in this 8 weeks of analyzing languages.
But that more than two hours of rest at the end of the day really gave me the strength to finish my paper last night and pass it on time this morning. Back it up with native coffee and you won't feel the need to sleep, har har har. We told our professor that our post-Field Methods reaction is, "Haaaaaaaaay!" He just laughed. I guess when he finishes with our final papers, he can also say the same thing.
We had an amusing situation this morning at 3am. I was done with my paper and was supposed to print it. (Thanks to Fukuda san, we had a new ink cartridge, just in time for the final paper.) But the printer kept saying that the ink levels are low, that the black cartridge has been used before, and that I should press the RESUME button if I still want to print. I kept pressing the OK button but it still popped up so I had to cancel printing. We tried the other printer, still the same warning. We tried the other printer's cartridge, connected the printer to Robyn's computer; still the same warning. We were getting really frustrated because if we can't print, then we can't pass our paper, right? We thought it might be the color cartridge, so Manong Dalmas went home and got their printer (we all have the same kind of printer) and their cartridge, but still the same thing.
Then I asked Robyn, "What is this RESUME button that this printer keeps on asking us to push?" She said she also doesn't know, but Doralyn heard my question and answered that it was the lower button in the printer. Guess what? That did the trick! Well, what can I say? It always helps to read the printer's manual nyahahahaha... After going nuts about it, we can't help but laugh at the irony.
You know what, I forgot to put an acknowledgement in my paper, so allow me to write it here:
--Thank you to our profesors, Sirs Steve and Allan and Ma'am Joker, for their expertise, great teamwork and help. If our teachers were not that approachable and understanding, I wouldn't be here writing all these.
--Thank you to my parents and siblings for their love and support in my endeavors, and for praying for me. Also to my mentor, Uncle Keith and his wife Aunt Kathie, for pushing and encouraging me still.
--Thank you to my housemates: Jean, Robyn, Meriam, Rynj, Doralyn, Esther and not to forget our 3/4 housemate Manong Dalmas, for sharing the ups and downs of this course with me. The sleepless nights weren't that bad because you were there struggling and laughing along with me. Special mention to Meriam, who is my language learning partner: thank you for being a considerate companion in all our sessions.
--Thank you to my classmates, the Applied Linguistics Program class, who have become a family.
--Thank you to our Language Resource Person (LRP), Pathawng, for sharing us one of his gifts, his language (Chin, Falam), and for being so accomodating with the extra time we asked for. Also, to the other LRPs, Thara and John, for contributing to a clearer analysis of their language.
--Thank you to my friends: Marj, who is always online and available to unload all of life's worries and events. Shock absorber, in short! Jesse, whom I can always count on to meet with me when I want to go out, and not think about linguistics for a change. My childhood pals: Mona, Nancy, Dalome, Wayen, Girly, Jane, Claudette, Kristelle, Christine, Maurice, and a whole lot more of my elementary batchmates, whom I can relish being with when I go home, and who keep in touch with me. My high school barkada: Nympha, Gay, Luz, Joanna, Maisie, Mia, and other special high school friends, who are still a part of me. We see each other rarely but when we do, it still feels like old times.
--Thank you to everyone, whom I have not mentioned in this impromptu acknowledgement, but have helped, counseled, encouraged me at one time or the other. You know who you are.
--And last but not the least, to God, who is responsible for all these good things I have acknowledged. My gratitude could never measure up to his immeasurable love and mercy.
Goodbye Field Methods and Computer Data Management!
Hello Sociolinguistics and Literacy! :-)
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
Crossroad
The old road is somewhat irregular, sometimes smooth, sometimes rough like all normal roads are, I guess, but I have weathered it simply because I loved traveling on it. At first, it felt unfamiliar territory but as I traveled on, it seemed more and more like a secure direction, a comfortable destination. But I had doubts along the way as I saw other roads that seemed to beckon to me. However, I seem to have overcome all obstacles while traveling on this road. I learned to live with the good times and the tough times, so I thought I will be continuing on this road forever.
Until now, when I came upon this crossroad. The new road is a mystery; it seems to fit me judging from the size and makings of it, but I have no inkling of where it would lead me. Time and again I have come upon this road but have not seen the compelling need to switch roads. I know that like the old road I would need to adjust to it before I can really get the hang of traveling on it; that is, if I do decide to get off the old road though.
If I do decide to travel on this new road, would it disappoint me? Would it give me the security and comfort the old road has given me? Better yet, would it be a better travel than what I experienced with the old one? In short, would it be a better choice?
I do not know. I have my doubts; I have my fears. I am a person who likes security, and going off in another direction is a major risk. But, I also seem to be getting tired of the old road. Sure, I have weathered the good and the bad, but it has left me with scars and bruises. Because of the travel, some parts of my body grew callused and other parts, I have sensitive skin left exposed. This has wearied me from traveling on the same road, and come to think of it, from traveling itself.
Some say I should take the risk and go off on the new road since it seems to be fitted more for me. Others say, why go off the old road when I have already been on it for far too long that it seems to fit me well. It is a hard decision to make and it has left me stuck on the crossroad, unable to go farther.